Start
Beginning the process of becoming a mer is a long, but rewarding journey. Before you start shifting, you need to be certain you are completely ready to dedicate your life to your goal. You will need to feel in your soul that you are meant to be a mermaid, and with hard work, YOU CAN DO IT! You need to know that once you complete the different stages of shifting transformation- there is no going back. You need to be positive you are ready to sacrifice to achieve your dream. I will try and help you as much as I can using this site, and feel free to email me too! ( [email protected] ) If you are REALLY dedicated to this goal, you might be able to complete your transformation in a few weeks or a month, but if you are less dedicated it could take up to 8 or 9 months :( And if you really aren't ready, it could take you years to become a mer! But, it is definitely worth it, being a mermaid is amazing, so don't give up!
Know
Know what you are going to have to do in order to become a mermaid. In fantasy shifting you are going to learn about yourself as a mermaid, and begin meditating often, and maybe start trying out some spells. In mental shifting, you will have to change the way you act, feel, dress and eat and make your mind believe that you really ARE a mermaid. You must be willing to change your lifestyle, and give up some of your more "human" things. In physical shifting, you are going to need to use much of your spare time to practice your shifting. You will have to shift often and constantly, so you can become a mermaid quickly.
Be aware
You need to be aware of some of the risks of becoming a mermaid. You need to be patient, and dont rush straight into physical shifting. If you rush into it, there are two things that may happen. One: you may be unable to physically shift because you have no idea of what you're doing, or Two: you will be able to physically shift, but you don't have the mentality of a mermaid. You also need to know, you shouldn't tell anyone about your shifting, if you have to tell someone, maybe tell your parents, but only if its ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY. Don't tell anyone just to show off, or feel special, and I highly advise you to just keep it to yourself. People always love telling secrets, and you never know what could happen if the wrong person found out. And know, that when shifting, this is a personal journey,you shouldn't share it. Also, once you shift, you might feel like you dont belong in the human world, and just want to swim forever. You might just be thinking it will be so cool to just be able to swim around, and explore the ocean, which you can do, but it's more than that. Becoming a mermaid will change you, and your life forever. Don't think that you can just stop shifting when you want to, it's not that easy, your brain is still part mermaid, even if your body isn't. Being a mermaid will be a huge part of your life, it's hard to just abandon it. All the time when you're in the human world, you may feel like there is a part of you that just wants to swim away, and be a mermaid forever, you cant connect to humans well now. You need to be certain this is what you want, and you will accept the consequences. A mermaid shifter said: "Its hard to resist the call of the sea. And even when you do, even at your most human, you still feel alone in this world. So for those of you still trying to shift, and, actually, anyone on this goal, let me warn you. It is a beautiful and horrible experience. It is terrifying and thrilling and disturbing and amazing. But the one thing about it, is that no matter what you’re feeling or what changes you are going through, you are doing it alone.
Completely alone."
Finally, don't listen to haters! Dont even read what they write or listen to what they say, because even though you may not say it, they can make you doubt what you believe! Just remember, sometimes the more you see, the less you know, the more you know, the less you believe, and the less you believe, the less you achieve :)
Completely alone."
Finally, don't listen to haters! Dont even read what they write or listen to what they say, because even though you may not say it, they can make you doubt what you believe! Just remember, sometimes the more you see, the less you know, the more you know, the less you believe, and the less you believe, the less you achieve :)